A few words on 'Nothing Matters'...
When I came to the realization - not the understanding but rather the 'knowing' - that I am not my body but instead that I AM a limitless, boundless, and timeless SOUL living a human experience, everything else started to make sense...including 'Nothing Matters'.
Nothing Matters' encompasses the concept of attachment. For example, if you believe that you are nothing without that perfect person, if you believe that you are worthless and would never be able to get along in this world without that perfect man or woman, what you are really saying is that you are attached to the idea of the perfect dependable partner because you do not believe that you are limitless, boundless and self-sufficient, totally powerful in your own right. Through this attachment, you have empowered this idea or this person by giving of your own power. If instead you apply the concept of nothing matters, than all the fears that lead you to believe that you need someone else to survive disappear. You no longer spend time considering what would happen if you were alone, because the idea of 'alone' wouldn't even exist - you would see it as another cry from your ego to make you afraid.
Our Souls are trapped in a time/space reality just for the benefit of experience. By applying 'Nothing Matters', the experience of being here becomes not only bearable but actually peaceful.
Resistance is released.
Purpose is uncovered.
Does purpose matter? That is your choice. The concept of 'nothing matters' says only one thing: you make your own choices. Other people's judgments don't matter. Your judgments don't matter. Your choice is made regardless of whether you doubt yourself or not. Nothing matters because this is all an illusion. I am not fat and short. I am so much more encompassing than that. I am not female and blond. My skin colour is not me. None of that matters.
"Nothing Matters" opens your EYES to everything around you, not just what you see in front of your nose, or on your schedule for the day. 'Nothing Matters' represents a consciousness or an understanding of the fact that we are all limitless beings, capable of anything and everything!!
All you have to do is decide what you want to do with the power that is yours. Do you choose to empower manifestations of fear or do you choose another path? There is no right or wrong because in fact...nothing matters! Judgments...nope, they don't matter!
We are only an observer, because the real experiencer, the real thinker is our Soul, going through local space, and past, present, and future time experiences to grow and to evolve. Our body, physical, mental, and emotional, our mind and intelligence are only the tools of the soul to get that experience. I say 'only' because to give these things more credit would empower them while taking power away from me.
Let me for a moment get into the topic of free will versus destiny.
It may seem like a contradiction to say that we have free will to create our existences but at the same time, before we came here we decided to go through specific situations that we cannot now choose not to go through. Let's look at this for a minute. Assuming that this is what actually happened, and that we did in fact agree to experience some predetermined things in this life, it is important to understand to what we actually agreed. We only agreed to take part in the experience. We did not predetermine how we are to experience the experience. In other words:
We always have the choice to decide how we want to respond to experience.
That is the key in determining how our existence unfolds. Empower yourself by owning your choices, taking command of your journey. None of this matters because essentially we will all get to the end result. The question is only how you CHOOSE to get there. If you choose to take a passive role and see yourself as indestructible because the ending is inevitable, that is your choice. Take a moment if you wish and just remember that for each cause, there is an effect. You are free to make your choices, but ignorance of their consequences is not a defense. It is up to you how you choose to live your life.
Only you look through your eyes.
Only you see the world the way you do.
If you choose to see yourself as being harmed, then that will be your reality. On the other hand, if you choose not to see yourself as harmed, your thoughts and perceptions will accommodate this alternate reality for you. Nothing that you experienced matters in the end whether you see yourself as harmed or not. Nothing matters. Even the choice that you make about whether you are hurt or not doesn't matter because the way you define yourself here is not an all-encompassing definition of who you are.
It is about perceptions.
It is about experience.
Have fun with life!! Enjoy it!! Life is not a serious thing....it's freedom if you choose to look at it that way.
Always your choice...